When I chose the topic of feminism, I wanted to assess how
far women have progressed in their quest to be treated with equality. I have
grown up in a household where my Mother had a career as well as my Father. I
have observed how she has worked extra hard to move into higher positions of
responsibility and authority while she and my Dad have run a large household
and raised a family with 3 children. She has educated me on the struggles of
women to be treated equally in the workplace as well as handle a full time job
and still enjoy her family. All the topics I chose and the research I performed
was backed up with the real life examples of my Mother.
The video survey on the streets of New York revealed that
even in this modern day and age, people don’t understand what feminism is. However,
my Mother told me that people in her company do not openly disparage the cause
of feminism or the goal of women to be treated equally in the workplace. She
says that is largely because they are trained to treat everyone equally with
respect. Companies have learned that if they do not help to change people’s
attitudes towards workplace diversity, productivity is impacted negatively and
the company can be sued for large amounts of money. Her company’s training on
workplace ethics sites many of these lawsuits and the large amounts of money that
were awarded to the people discriminated against. My Mom said that it would be interesting to see a more scientific
survey conducted in the workplace.
In the article entitled “Five Signs of Stalled Progress on
the Gender Wage Gap”, I discovered that there is still a wage gap based on
current statistics. Women do indeed receive less pay for the same job today. They
make about 77% of what men make for similar work. In my mother’s case, she
shared with me a current story. One of her male colleagues has the same job
duties and the same amount of consultants reporting to him as she does. They
both have similar backgrounds, experience, and skills. My Mother was highly
rated on her last job performance review. Given all this information, she
should be at the same level as this man. In fact, she has a title one level
below this man and she thinks she makes less money based upon what others have
told her. Her story validated one of the main points of the article. Because
she is not able to know for sure the male colleague’s salary, it makes it
difficult for her to remedy the situation.
In the video “Why We Have Too Few Women Leaders Video”, I
was pleased to see a woman in a top leadership role at Facebook. She shared her
thoughts on why the percentage of women in top level positions is still so low.
In my Mother’s case, she took some maternity leave to have her children but
returned back to work within 9 months in each case. This was one of the arguments
Sheryl Sandberg made as to why it takes women longer because they disengage
from their ambitions too quickly while they are having children. My Mother
thinks if she didn’t continue to be involved with work or if she had taken a
longer time off her career to be with her children, she would not have gotten
as far as she did. She also believes that women need to believe they can do it
and fight as hard as men do to get the top positions. She also believes they
need to support each other more. She found a way to still be involved in her
children’s lives as well as be successful in her career but it wasn’t easy.
In the website about the Biography of Gloria Steinem, Gloria
talked about how she had to fight much harder than the men for the good job
assignments. My Mother had the same fight in the traditionally male role as a
Telephone Company Engineer. She experienced managers in lead roles who held
discriminatory beliefs about the ability of women to lead projects. She had to
prove herself over and over again to get the same respect of the men in the
same job. She also wholeheartedly agreed with Gloria’s statement “The truth is
that women can't be equal outside the home until men are equal in it”. Without
my Dad helping as much as he does at home, she would have had a much more
difficult time focusing on her job at the same level as her male colleagues.
In the article “Is the Female Brain Innately Inferior?” both
my Mother and I were shocked that people today still held such beliefs. My
Mother attended Georgia Tech which is one of the top 5 Engineering schools in
the country. At the time she went there, there was a ratio of 4 men to every 1
woman attending Engineering school. She believes it is because her parents
encouraged her in Math from an early age. She had the same chance to do as well
as the men in her school because she believed she had the ability. Today, the
number of women attending technical schools has increased since she went there
which further proves that women are not inherently less capable than men in
Math.
Lastly in the video “Women in the Military” the atmosphere
of male superiority and dominance has made it tough for women. Each panel member
said how important it was for the military leadership to have a firm no
tolerance attitude to discrimination against women in their ranks. They also
discussed how important it was for military leadership to be the role model for
treating everyone equally. Again, my Mother shared with me how difficult it was
for her working with mostly male workforce in the phone company. She told me
that these attitudes became less prevalent in the workplace when corporate
policy started making it mandatory for people to be treated equally and
everyone was given training on workforce ethics. She told me it has definitely
improved work life for women. Also in the video, the panelists spoke about how
important it was to have standard criteria and training for positions. This same
approach has also helped to equalize entry into various positions in corporate
life.
I believe that progress has been slow but we are starting to
see improvement in the equality of women in all walks of life. It has been a
difficult struggle for women before us to get to this step and it will take my
generation of women to get it to where it needs to be – where people are
treated the same and provided equal opportunity no matter what their sex, race,
religious affiliation, etc. I am encouraged by this research that we can work
together to make changes in society. It takes people banding together to fight
for what is right and proving that it benefits everyone when members of a
society are treated equally.